Tuesday, July 20, 2010

2010 Happenings :)

SO MUCH HAS HAPPENED THIS SUMMER. Hahaha, it is unreal how much my life has changed completely in a few short months. Kim came out to live with me, sort of unexpectedly at the beginning of this summer. I am so lucky to have her in my life. No matter what we are going through, we always work together for the better. She is my inspiration and joy, and we have had an unforgettable summer, tinged with laughter, joy, tears, and heartache. Oh, and a LOT of traveling.

Some places we have gotten to see this summer include:


Our Nauvoo group in Carthage, Illinois.


At the YSA Dance that we ROCKED in Kirtland, Ohio



Kim, Will, Wes, and I at the St. Louis, MO Arch.


Hopefully, we will have a few more travel destinations under our belt before the summer comes to a close, and Kim runs of to Rexburg to finish her last year at BYUI.

In addition to positively owning the midwest in travel this year, Kim and I have been fortunate to really find out a lot of things about ourselves as well. The weekend of July 11th, my good friend Maria got married. We had the opportunity to use Kim's knowledge of floral design, and my knowledge of how to stay on task in the workplace to the absolute limit, and we pulled off a very successful assortment of wedding flowers, ranging from the brides bouquet, to 17 centerpieces, to bouts and corsages. I had made a few bouts in my day, and cut some flowers, but to spend 15 hours working intricate bridesmaids bouquets was well beyond my realm of knowledge before this weekend. While I learned that I can, in fact, make exceptionally beautiful floral pieces, I also learned that Kim and I have a unique partnership in the workplace because of our amount of respect for one another, and because of our trust we have in each other's integrity. It's really amazing what we are able to create with one another.

Here are a few examples of the work that we did for Maria!


FLOWERS Everywhere!!! We completed all of this in the Hilton :).

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Kim in her element... packing the multiple centerpieces we'd created.


Kim with the bride's bouquet (which she created), checking the size of the toss bouquet (which I designed!!!)



Congratulations Maria!!! (Kim completed the bride's bouquet solo)


We have been crunching numbers for a few weeks now, and it has been decided that we will be starting our own floral design and events planning company, and opening doors September 2011 here in Chicago! More to follow!

Monday, June 14, 2010

Chicago Cares Service 06/12/2010

Today, we got the opportunity to participate in Chicago Cares National Day of Service. Chicago Cares is the biggest non- profit organization localized here in Chicago; and it has hundreds of service projects each year. Their National Day of Service benefits many inter-city schools, and common areas for children and seniors.

8,600 of us piled into school buses where we had various assignments on what today's activities would be. As we rode to our particular project location, our bus captain briefed us on what to expect in our service location, including stats on the safety of the location, and what an average school age child's life was like at our destination point. My singles branch was assigned to Hedges Elementary school in the Back of Yards neighborhood on the south side. This neighborhood was made famous by Upton Sinclair's book, The Jungle... and is so named The Back of Yards, because it was originally the place polish immigrants lived that worked in the union stockyards in the mid 1800's. It is one of Chicago's poorest neighborhoods to date, and although a revival in the 1970's made the area livable, today, it consists of some of the most dangerous Mexican- American and African- American gang wars in the United States.




I couldn't help thinking about the children that walked the halls on a daily basis. The school is beautiful... hundreds of years old, and to me, it was a work of art. However, the facts read plainly that this was a disintegrated neighborhood... the classrooms are very overcrowded, the paint was peeling off the walls, and I would be very surprised if this building met earthquake or fire codes. There were 6 large classrooms for 990 children Pre- Kindergarten through 8th grade. We learned that 97% of the population of the children that attend this elementary school come from single mother homes. 90% of the children that come from single mother homes have fathers that are incarcerated in the federal prison system, most incarcerated for gang related homicide.

How different my childhood was. I worried about my neighbor down the street bringing hostess cupcakes to school; these children worried about their neighbor down the street bringing guns to school. I went to school counseling when my dad got hurt in a work related injury; these kid's school programs couldn't provide counseling... even though their fathers and mothers, brothers and sisters were dead because of gang violence. There was no security system to even provide the slightest protection for these kids, because the Chicago public school system did not even have the means to provide the paint that we used to paint the walls.

Who will remember these kids? We served 39 different elementary schools in various inter-city areas on Saturday, painting, sanitizing, and organizing... but is it enough? No. A fresh coat of paint will not wash away the blood that these walls contain. The flower boxes we built and filled with flowers will not stand guard to protect these innocent children, born into circumstances they cannot control. What choices will they make tomorrow? What kind of situations will they find themselves in, in the weeks to come?


I need to volunteer more so that I can remember where my heart is. My heart is not in dating the BYU football player, or having my picture in the society pages of Chicago Social, although that has been done too. I have paid $250 for a stupid pair of shoes... where may the money have been better spent? I know that if I can lose myself in service, that is when I can truly also find myself and lose my natural man that so wants to be developed at times.

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Catch Up.

Hm...well...6 months ago was Christmas. Definitely haven't written since then. So much has happened...where even to begin.

I am extremely lucky to have Kim out here for the summer. While we are very alike, we are completely different...and it's always so fabulous to get things from her perspective. Just in the short time she has been here, she has been able to completely open my eyes again to new possibilities and adventures... and make me breath easily again. The day I find a guy like Kim, I may just actually give up all of my commitment issues, and fall in love again.


This is Kim and I at the Millennium Park face fountains over off Michigan Ave.


As of late, I have really been realizing how lucky I am. Somehow I've managed to love people that are worth it, lose people that aren't, seen small towns, big cities, Europe, Mexico, and most of the United States. I have a family that loves me, a sister whose example I would die without...and friends that are seriously irreplaceable.

Kohanna, Kelsey, and I

Kohanna came home from her mission! Without a doubt, she'll get insane again soon enough. You know you've been in Chicago WAY TOO LONG when one of your best friends has gone and a mission, and then returned...

Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Christmas In The Chi.

This is seriously going to be the weirdest Christmas I have ever had.

And seriously, don't under estimate the weirdness I hve experienced in this lovely, joyous time of year. Christmas has always been amazing, though, no matter where I am in the world...because always, before this Christmas, I was with my family.

Don't get me wrong...there are a lot of times when my family puts the "fun" in "dysfunctional". But they're family.

This year...I will be waking up in my freezing cold waste land...my mecca..my Chicago. Alone.

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Accomplishments.

Sigh.

I used to think, that life was simple. At least the oultine anyway. I would graduate high school, go to college, get my undergrad in English...get into Bolt Law, and go on to fight for lives. Somewhere along the way, I would get married, buy a house, and have a dog.

I'm thinking the non-traditional route is one I chose.

Somehow, I didn't attend a state school. Somehow, my long term boyfriend of 4.5 years and I didn't make it last...and somehow I decided it would be a good choice to run away 2,300 miles from home, to Chicago...the big city...and try to make it.

Make what?

I have a good, stable job. I live in a high rise downtown. I have a ton of friends. I have virtually no responsibility, aside from ensuring my rent check gets turned in each month. What MORE did I need to make?

I don't know. I really need to prove something though.

Sigh.

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

And I need an attitude adjustment.

Haha...it's been a while. Clearly...I suck at blogging. Oh well...not really a trait I ever ardently wanted to develop anyway.

Some thoughts:

I feel like I am on the brink of discovering some very interesting things about myself...but it almost seems as if I have been reaching through the dark towards a light source that I am really working hard to get to, only to discover the answer on how to get there was so simple and easy to attain all along. Does that even make any sense? Probably not. Fail.
But seriously...I guess I am just realizing a lot of times, things are easier than they appear.

There is just so much to learn.

Not to say I haven't already soaked up a lot of collective data about myself lately...I have just been having some really inspiring conversations with people that have allowed myself to look at things in other light, and to broaden my future options. I think one of the most interesting self discoveries I have made as of late, has been that I am not a predetermined substance; rather: by being selective about who I spend my time with, what activities I participate in, what music I listen to, and what I fill my thoughts with...I am defining myself little by little. Really, a common conept, but one that I am just beginning to grasp fully.

I am getting to old to play reindeer games, in essence.

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

A Christian Democrat...

It is about time I laid my core values out, clearly and concisely, for my friends. It may appear odd to many that I am able to revere both my religion, with The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day-Saints (Mormon), and believe so passionately in the Democratic party. Many times, I have been asked, "How can you be a Mormon, and vote liberally?"...and, "How can you be a registered Democrat, and preach Christianity?". I will answer these questions once and for all.

1. As a Democrat, I believe that it is necessary to care for the downtrodden, the poor, and the weary, the sickly, the elderly, and the mentally incapacitated. I believe with all of my heart, mind and soul that issues such as health care, social security, welfare, and education should have proper funding from the government. It literally sickens me to see Republican after Republican leave these programs in their wake of destruction, simply because the people using these programs do not have a voice. If one has properly followed the teachings found in the New Testament, one will discern for himself that Jesus Christ Himself spent His time with the poor, the weary, the down trodden, and the helpless. He gave His time, and His miracles to the people who needed a voice, because their government turned a deaf ear upon them in their time.
a. On Health care in America- what Democrats propose is a socialist approach to reforming the system, making health care available to all...and allowing the federal government to dissolve the bands which have held back nearly two-thirds of Americans from feeling the benefits of health insurance.
b. On Education in America- "You may give a man a fish, and feed him for a day, but if you teach a man to fish, you can feed him for his lifetime." Education is key. It is the only thing that will save us in the end. Public schools are in desperate need of money for teachers salaries, school supplies, and books. College students are in desperate need of more funds available with federal grants and student loans. The only way to ensure a brighter tomorrow for America is by ensuring a good education for that next generation.

2. As a Democrat, I believe that the We, the American people, should pay taxes, and see the benefit of using a portion of our money for the greater good of our country. Yes...we work hard. Yes...people give money to charitable organizations. But it is not enough. It is not enough to count on the wealthy to give to the poor, because in all reality, there are not enough good people in the world. There are too many sick, afflicted, and over worked people...many of which will never see the benefit of these wonderful, yet few and far between charitable acts.

3. As a Democrat, I believe that abortion is a woman's choice. I stand firmly behind the Supreme Court Decision for Roe Vs. Wade. I think that victims of rape, victims of incest, and mothers whose health is endangered should be able to obtain legal abortions. I do not want to ever see the country fall into a time again when there are back-alley abortions, and black market doctors. While my personal religious convictions do not condone using abortion as a birth control, I do not believe there will ever be an acceptable way to regulate those that are using the right to abortion as a means of foregoing trauma after a rape or incest, and those that choose to use abortion as a means of birth control. I am Pro- Choice, because with all of my heart, I know and believe that the God that I worship would not take away agency from His people.


4. As a Democrat, I believe in the middle class. Having studied our history and the history of many nations, it became undeniably clear to me that without a strong middle class, a country will eminently collapse on itself. I align my views with the Democratic party in that we MUST strengthen our middle class in order to preserve our glorious Country, and prevent a revolution and uprising of the lower class citizens against the wealthy highest class. Look at any point in history, whether it be the fall of the Roman Empire in 630, or the French Revolution of 1789...and see that when the middle class jobs were eliminated, the country ceased to be successful economically.

5. As a Democrat, I believe that we must end the war in Iraq as quickly as we can, and as responsibly as is humanly possible. Bottom Line- This war was brought upon us under the false pretenses that we were fighting for something that happened on September 11, 2001 in New York City. Bin Laden was not, and has not been in Iraq...and anyone who may believe that there is any tie whatsoever to our troops in Iraq and Sept. 11 is a fool. I support the troops we have there; and I want them to stop losing their lives for a dead cause...for we will never win a religious battle with a country that has held onto the same principles, may they be for good or for bad, for thousands of years. I want my friends, my neighbors, and my family to come home safely, and with as little battle scars as possible. Too many have already laid down their lives.

6. As a Democrat, (and many of my Christian constituates will disagree with me), I see no problem with people that have chosen a homosexual lifestyle receiving the same benefits that I will receive as a heterosexual. Again, I have a really hard time taking away rights from my fellow Americans, regardless of my religious belief system. While I was raised that "Marriage should be between a man and a woman", and under the eyes of God, I do not believe that my homosexual friends should not be allowed at the death bed of a loved one, to share tax breaks with their life partner, or to share a civil union with the person they have chosen to spend the rest of their life with.

7. Lastly, I am a Democrat, because being registered as so, I am able to get up every morning, look myself in the eye, and declare to myself, "Tiffany, you've done your best, and you've given you're all." For me, The Democratic Party stands for honesty, for change, and for the integrity we need to get this wonderful and glorious country back on track.

In God We Trust.